What Women Want....

While I was actually thinking of hiring a boyfriend (no I am not joking). Since its so tuff to find a good guy these days. Might as well pay for it, at least I’ll have someone to bank on. A friend of mine, who runs a recruitment firm, came out with this funny or rather unique suggestion of helping me out in hiring the same. By the way I don’t think those days are too far, when there would be recruitment firms who would get into full fledged bf/husband hiring, for not so lucky in love, spinsters. Cause at the end of the day whether you want to accept it or not, gals like us do crave for someone to be close to. Anyway so because this friend of mine is helping me in fishing a suitable candidate for the post, and since I am serious about it, he actually coaxed me to pen down the JD for the prospective hire. Here is my list of key requirements, and these are all part of my needs and not greed (as he said J).
1. Intelligent – Above average intelligence is a must. Should be sharp, quick witted and spontaneous. If has a gift of gab nothing like it. Doesn’t mean he needs to be an extrovert.
2. Well groomed – hygienic, impeccable table manners, polished, neatly dressed, no piercing, no tattoos, clean shoes, clean socks, well manicured (not necessarily heterosexual / consciously fashionable). in short simple, smart and sophisticated.
3. Respect for woman /people – he could be a playboy but that doesn’t mean for him woman are only for bed. He should treat opposites and even the same race with equality and dignity.
4. Broad minded – hypocrisy is a complete no-no in men. So is the dual rule book.
5. Well educated – for me education goes a longer way then riches if given a choice. Cause I seriously think money cannot buy you class, and education / good breeding can never go wrong.
6. Grounded – A little arrogance is alright for the world. But shouldn’t be snooty like narcissist.
7. Agony aunt – should be willing to listen to me whenever I have the urge to crib without blaming me every now and then.
8. Caring – should be willing to pamper me and spend on me unlike in all my previous relations where I was the one wore pants always.
9. Vocal and demonstrative – I don’t mind shy guys but that doesn’t mean he is stingy in complimenting once in a while or not demonstrative enough in love and affection.
10. Best friend – should be my best friend before more than anything else. I should be able to talk to him and tell him anything under the sun without the fear of being judged.
11. Financially independent – very important should be willing to support me in case I don’t want to work, and I shouldn’t be working to support the family or as a bread winner but for my own additional income.
12. Lastly, should love me unconditionally without too many amendments.
Thanks buddy for instigating me to pen down this list. It actually got me thinking, I wish I had done this earlier. And I hope its not too much to ask for.