Its been a reallyyyyyyyyyyy long time after which I am riting this post. In fact I have been contemplating on the idea of writing regularly on this page. But all my efforts have gone in vain. I don’t think till the time I get a connection at home I shall be able to rite regularly. Cause almost all my brilliant ideas the most thought provoking ones come at night. That’s the time when I introspect the most. In fact its funny the other day I was thinking that barring nites when my grey cells are working the most. The only other part of the day when I kinda get a recap is when I m bathing. I m sure many ppl would laugh at this idea. But donno why I somehow think a lot while scrubbing my ass off in the washroom. No wonder they say each to his own. In the office even though I don’t have a dearth of ideas and many a times I have even sat down to riting something. Cause I feel like riting as when an idea or a topic pops up but somehow it doesn’t materialize reason being I also like to rite in a flow. And that flow you seldom get in the office.
Like the other day I was thinking on writing about how would I go about convincing my kids that secs before marriage is not a good option. I don’t want to give them that statement without any reasoning like we were told by our mothers during our upbringing. Its not good and good gals don’t do it before marriage. I want to give them a logical reasoning behind it as why they shudnt, and wat are the repercussions of it. However, the big question is wat could be that logical reasoning behind it, especially for gals. Cause there is a lot of emotional investment involved when you get physical with someone, or your reputation is always at stake, or the cons are not worth that 5 mins of pleasure. What could be that reason and how do u forbid someone from doing it when in a relationship. Its not abt control its abt why should you stop. I am still looking for a concrete reason behind it.
Second and the reason why I was tempted to really scribble something today was again I wanted to vent and discuss with probably myself cause nobody would read this blog for sure J. Today I again realized that time is an important ingredient in a relationship. Everything is meant of suppose to be done or acted on its designated time. For eg if I have the urge to vent then it should be done the time when I really wanna do it not say some other day or some other time. That time probably I wont be that desperate or I wont feel so strongly to crib or say something. If I need a hug or a kinda reassurance, I would need it today not sometime after when I m normal. Does that make sense. But I have found my place now which is just the rite thing for me. Whenever I m depressed, lonely, moody, etc etc I know where to come.
Like the other day I was thinking on writing about how would I go about convincing my kids that secs before marriage is not a good option. I don’t want to give them that statement without any reasoning like we were told by our mothers during our upbringing. Its not good and good gals don’t do it before marriage. I want to give them a logical reasoning behind it as why they shudnt, and wat are the repercussions of it. However, the big question is wat could be that logical reasoning behind it, especially for gals. Cause there is a lot of emotional investment involved when you get physical with someone, or your reputation is always at stake, or the cons are not worth that 5 mins of pleasure. What could be that reason and how do u forbid someone from doing it when in a relationship. Its not abt control its abt why should you stop. I am still looking for a concrete reason behind it.
Second and the reason why I was tempted to really scribble something today was again I wanted to vent and discuss with probably myself cause nobody would read this blog for sure J. Today I again realized that time is an important ingredient in a relationship. Everything is meant of suppose to be done or acted on its designated time. For eg if I have the urge to vent then it should be done the time when I really wanna do it not say some other day or some other time. That time probably I wont be that desperate or I wont feel so strongly to crib or say something. If I need a hug or a kinda reassurance, I would need it today not sometime after when I m normal. Does that make sense. But I have found my place now which is just the rite thing for me. Whenever I m depressed, lonely, moody, etc etc I know where to come.
