Bus itna sa khawaab hai…

This is called wishfull thinking at its best........

1. I wish I was man. Man what fun would that be. I will never have to think before sleeping (alone), never have to get worried abt my regular parlour visits, about marriage, about getting old, about looking good, about having an affair and so many other things. Don’t even need to worry about getting pregnant.

2. I wish god would make me invisible on my wish, or give me a gadget which could make me invisible whenever, and wherever I want. No points for guessing what all would happen to this entire world had this been possible. Imagine peeking into your boss’s house and getting to know his most guarded secret. Wow my appraisal would never be a problem in life. Infact I would never need to work to earn.

3. I wish I could read people’s thoughts. First thing I would want to know is how many men are lusting after me. I seriously feel most men cannot think beyond their dick, but to know exactly how brutally low they can stoop in their thinking is one sure thing I would want to explore besides others.

4. I wish my skin was the best in the world, which would never age (I dont care what colour it is dont want to be fair just want it to be the best forever and ever) . And I always have men drooling after me. No actually not just men even otherwise I want the gals to get jealus too.

5. I wish I found an Aladdin’s lamp. And then I wouldn’t need to wish for anything, instead could just fulfil them.

Guys, if you have any of such insane wishes like me. Let me know, would love to know that I am not the only dreamer on this dreamland.

Live-in relationships at its best….

Please note the views and opinions expressed in the this post/blog are strictly personal / confidential and bear no resemblance to any couple living or dead, its NOT meant to hurt anybody’s sentiments, any such act is purely coincidental and (non)intentional.
The so-called advantages of a live-in relationship according to me a.k.a some commonly agreed conveniences of convenient relationships:-
- I am what I am. The biggest attraction, that it safeguards your original personality and lets you be yourself which at time may be missing out of marriages. We often change ourselves 360° in the process of compromising and adjustments. There is nothing wrong in it so long you don’t have a regret later.
- There are no tags attached. No one owes anything to anyone. You don’t have to change your name be it first or last name and maintain/live up to several other associations so formed eg chachi, bhabhi, bahu, etc etc.
- Live-in does not force you anything, be its sex, watching a particular news/sports channel, shopping etc etc. both the genders have more rights and privileges than wat marriage allow or has. Anything done is mostly mutually agreed.
- There are no rules to this game, its mostly played purely for pleasure and fun.
- It gives you the liberty to walk out of the relationship as and when you want, without thinking too much about societal/family emotional attyachaar.
- It restricts the chances of complacency.
- In live-in setups you mostly do things cause you yourself want to do it rather than cause you are obliged/supposed to do it.

However, the flip side:-
- Its still a BIG taboo in India.
- You don’t get rented accommodation on the basis of it.
- It gives too much of liberty to men rather than wimmen.
- Wimmen have more at stake, aka our reputation, emotions etc etc not that men don’t have emotions involved. I am sure most do.
- It gives too much of flexibility. Its easier to walk out of a live in relationship than a matrimony which at time could be a big handicap.
- Nothing comes with life time warranties, but still marriage is a safer option in old age.
- After all why shud boys have all the fun.

Whatever said and done I ll any day give my right feet right toe nail, a chance to live in with a/many gal(s) had I been a guy. But being the so called ‘weaker I think even if I let go of the society there is lot more at stake to enter these convenient relationships.