Thursday, March 04, 2010

The Dual Rule Book

I being a huge feminist. And huge would be an understatemtent. Find it really hard to digest that there are two different set of rule books followed in our society. One for the males and one for the females. And if we had to look at those two rule books, my faith on the fact that god is surely a man is reinstored. Cause its okay for a guy to flirt around for he is considered a charmer on occurrence such cognizable offences, but when wimmen displays something like that she is rated as a first grade slut. Of course nobody thinks you require grey cells to indulge in a verbal seduction. For a guy his priority list is ever changing, depending upon his mood, situation, time, need etc etc. But for a gal it has to be a chapter from the Bible, where he is considered Jesus, which cannot be amended ever. I can quote hazaar such examples where god definitely was partial towards wimmen while creating them. But then again it’s a mans world and who is to question.

I believed that love is not my forte till a few years back and now I don’t think marriage or partnership is my cup of tea either. Cause its really really hard for me to accept and follow these dual rule books. But then its equally harder to live without support from the opposite sex. After all how long can you keep changing, hoping to find that soul mate. When there is no such thing called soul mate. All you get is hybrid package deal with and without certain acceptable and certain non acceptable flaws, nothing full proof. You just need to choose what is easier to adjust with.