Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Are gals more horny or gals more horny?

May be this is not true may be this is my own cooked up story. But I want someone to answer this question. Cause I have always felt that some gals tend to overshadow their partners in crime, when it comes to sex. My mind refuses to believe it for various reasons like, its been always been a guys prerogative to take the laurels for it, plus we have only heard of rapes by men and not wimmen etc etc. So if the answer is yes then do we have a better self control or is it because its tougher to satisfy us hence we always crave for more. Or may be cause of the hormonal changes we go through. Lets just dissect these points one by one.
First reason could be a myth that guys require more. Cause they can accept it without any qualms, as they have nothing to loose. And for guys it is directly proportionate to their machismo. So they have more reasons to proclaim it then us even though we could be having an appetite way above them.
Second if we are suppose to have a bigger appetite for sex and then having a better self control doesn’t rhyme too well actually. Still we have a lot many virgin gals till they get married. Although, the figure is depleting now at an alarming rate. Can we owe this to someone who has never tasted a dish, would never get addicted to it or know how much of it to eat. But then there is so much talked about ‘forbidden secs’ that you needn’t necessarily taste it to know your requirement for it. Two very contradicting reasoning according to me. Personally a huge diet cannot be ignored especially if there are so many temptations around.
Lastly, it might be appropriate to believe that normally wimmen do not have a massive one unless they are going thru some hormonal changes. But here as well there is a contradiction cause I have seen wimmen oscillating between the two extremes under those conditions. Some just become celibate and others become a sex maniac. So you cant essentially blame it on the poor hormones. Also cause we have been trained to go through these changes even before our milk teeth had fallen.
So what is the reason, it cant be one odd case for sure.

Monday, August 03, 2009

Dont blame them....

We all rave and rant so much abt wimmen lib / female rites etc and all that. But have we ever thought abt the fact that with every right there comes a responsibility and vice-versa. You can somehow never enjoy any great power with equal accountability or probably more. I being a regular head line reader of the news paper everyday can easily vouch for the fact that, although in our society the female torcher rate is pretty alarming. And that there are more physically and mentally abused wimmen in our society than one could keep a track off. But on the same hand the no of laws made and the kinda institutions available, to safeguard their interest is also not that meager in number.
And even though its hard to believe, there are men in our society who inspite of being tortured by their spouse equally, have no court/law/institution to go for respite. Cause A) there are no laws made as such for them. Not that I have heard off. And even if there are, nobody is aware of it,. B) who is gonna sympathize or believe these guys, when they tell you incidences of husband bashing. We all somehow come with the notion, that a wimmen is always the victim and man is a predator. This has been in grilled in us since ages may be since our conception. Agreed wimmen are more at the receiving end most of the times but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen with men atall.
I being strong feminist myself, fume at the thought of a man raising an eye-brow over a wimmen forget abt lifting his finger to hit her. But still I cant ignore the fact that there is a good percentage of male who are paying thru their nose, for respecting wimmen. This can be said with a better conviction cause I have seen incidences like this in real life. Whatever said and done, when we cry hoarse about equal rights for both men and women. How come we don’t practice it. Why are there separate rules for domestic violence when it comes to men and wimmen. Even a rape victim in our country is always sympathized first till the male proves otherwise. Why do we fail to understand that its not impossible for a wimmen to manipulate a situation at times. Its not rocket science to use a privilege given to you against someone else.
If this continues I wont blame guys for having to resort to being nasty and not being good with women if cornered in such a fashion. I think a point worth brooding.