It looks like a review again. Such surprise test leave me jittery and nail biting. I feel already lost before even playing the one day cricket. Today is the day when my roles and responsibilities would be questioned and again I would be tested, on how well I can market myself. Remember I had spoken about oscillating between superiority and inferiority complex in life. However confident I may sound or fake it, this one is sure gonna be a bouncer.
Best of luck going now.
Monday, May 28, 2007
Wednesday, April 18, 2007
Indians finish fastest in bed, says survey
Interesting Read:-
New Delhi: Maybe it’s time to think of a Hindi translation for ‘wham bam, thank you ma’am!’. A new global sex survey reveals that when it comes to time devoted to the sexual act, Indians get done the fastest — averaging just 13 minutes, foreplay and all. The global average is a good five minutes longer, at 18 minutes. Nigerians, on the other hand, take a leisurely 24 minutes on every sexual encounter. That’s probably why they top the global satisfaction stakes, with 67% of the population feeling ekdum pleased with the act. India still comes third with 61% of respondents saying they are fully satisfied with their sex lives. The Japanese, at 15%, come across as the least fulfiled nation. These and other interesting tidbits were revealed in the Durex Global Sexual Wellbeing Survey that questioned more than 26,000 people across 26 countries about every aspect of their sex lives, in a bid to comprehensively chart what constitutes sexual wellbeing. The study reveals that Indians are among the most prolific lovers, having sex 130 times a year on average. That’s considerably more than the global average of 103. The Greeks, at 164 times a year, lead the most amorous lives (really making their good looks count). Brazilians (145 times) clock in next, followed by the Poles and the Russians (both 143). Sexologist Prakash Kothari is not surprised with the survey’s 13-minute finding on India. ‘‘Most Indian men use their wives as sleeping pills. They have never devoted enough time to foreplay, or the act itself. Early climax (premature ejaculation) is a more common disorder than erectile dysfunction (impotence) in Indian men,’’ he says. Not surprisingly, only 26% of Indian women report a regular orgasm (as opposed to 55% of the males). Yet, two-thirds of Indian women say they are satisfied with their sex lives, compared to 58% of men. Almost half of all Indians (47%) crave for more love and romance in their lives. Further, while more than two-thirds (67%) of Indians say their sex lives are exciting, 55% recognise the importance of introducing a little experimentation, with telephone sex and massage included as new trial activities. Says international sexual health expert, Dr Kevan Wylie, ‘‘The survey highlights how vital it is for everyone — especially men — to not only consider their sexual health but to talk to their doctor about solving problems to improve their sex life and that of their partner.’’
Wednesday, March 28, 2007
Sean
I remember writing a post abt my experiences related to various associations in life. When I rote about the people I have met since childhood and their impact on me and my life. I also mentioned that this list is not exhaustive since life is a journey and you keep meeting ppl and making friends. So here I am riting, abt another memorable friendship, which I know will never be able to forget for life.
For 13 glorious months of my life, I have been working with my present organisation.
One of the things that makes this organisation memorable is almost the daily talk on gtalk with SEAN.
Very very senior to me in the organisation, I had initially rejected him because to me he had appeared as “too freindly”. So for all the initial months in the organisation, we interacted on the same official platform but almost rarely if ever acknowledged each other. But all that changed by the end of the year ie December last year. I don’t remember what happened, when, or how, but we became friends. I am still to decipher what clicked between us, and how did I become so fond of him inspite of not liking him much initially. We swore lifelong commitment to each other based on our mad mental vibing, our love for wicked humour, and the chemistry that we found between us. If not on gtalk, then we were obviously out smoking in the emergency exit area, down in the orgnisation premises. The smoke touched the skies while we went about our daily business of dissecting things that happened, people we met, our future plans, goals, everything.
Sean’s most redeeming quality in my life was that he always knew how to make things better. You took a problem to him, man made or otherwise, and he solved it for you. He didn’t get mad, he just chose to get even. His brand of loyalty, clean heart, kickass intelligence, infectious enthusiasm, and the ability to know what was right for me although he was so many levels senior in the organisation, made him one of the most wonderful things in my life. I can jot down 1001 things I like abt him and why I like being friends with him. Just that one post would not be enuf. Several good things happened during my stay in the organisation, and thanks to him which is why I will always remember him and the organisation with a lot of affection and fondness. Today, he is the most respected man in the organisation (which only goes to demonstrate how utterly stupid my initial assessment of him as a person, was).
But to me he is not special for any of these achievements although they are all meritorious by themselves. To me he is special because he lets me be me with all my hundred imperfections and vanities, humiliations, heartbreaks, and defeats…things that I don’t admit to most others I know. He made me smile, he made me cry, he made my birthday really really special, he found something to redeem my faith in myself every single time that I messed up, and I know how often that was the case.
If there was one person to name who had restored my faith on male species it is SEAN. Gem of person whom you automatically start respecting once you know him as a person, cause he thinks of a gal beyond a sex symbol. He was the one who made me realise there is a thing called platonic relationship between a guy and gal. And that its possible to be friends with a guy without feeling guilty abt it. Talk abt any and everything on earth without being misunderstood, and without giving disclaimers again and again. That’s wat our friendship is all abt. Still I am blessed to learn the value of hard of work and professionalism from him. Been with me thru the thick and thins in the org, as my friend, philosopher and guide. Max trustworthy, one you can bank on blindly and max emotional too. Cancerian to the core.
As I believe good things don’t last long, I am sure this phase of life is also pretty short lived.
Silly Goose, Wish you all the best for all your future endevours in life.
Love always,
Idiot
For 13 glorious months of my life, I have been working with my present organisation.
One of the things that makes this organisation memorable is almost the daily talk on gtalk with SEAN.
Very very senior to me in the organisation, I had initially rejected him because to me he had appeared as “too freindly”. So for all the initial months in the organisation, we interacted on the same official platform but almost rarely if ever acknowledged each other. But all that changed by the end of the year ie December last year. I don’t remember what happened, when, or how, but we became friends. I am still to decipher what clicked between us, and how did I become so fond of him inspite of not liking him much initially. We swore lifelong commitment to each other based on our mad mental vibing, our love for wicked humour, and the chemistry that we found between us. If not on gtalk, then we were obviously out smoking in the emergency exit area, down in the orgnisation premises. The smoke touched the skies while we went about our daily business of dissecting things that happened, people we met, our future plans, goals, everything.
Sean’s most redeeming quality in my life was that he always knew how to make things better. You took a problem to him, man made or otherwise, and he solved it for you. He didn’t get mad, he just chose to get even. His brand of loyalty, clean heart, kickass intelligence, infectious enthusiasm, and the ability to know what was right for me although he was so many levels senior in the organisation, made him one of the most wonderful things in my life. I can jot down 1001 things I like abt him and why I like being friends with him. Just that one post would not be enuf. Several good things happened during my stay in the organisation, and thanks to him which is why I will always remember him and the organisation with a lot of affection and fondness. Today, he is the most respected man in the organisation (which only goes to demonstrate how utterly stupid my initial assessment of him as a person, was).
But to me he is not special for any of these achievements although they are all meritorious by themselves. To me he is special because he lets me be me with all my hundred imperfections and vanities, humiliations, heartbreaks, and defeats…things that I don’t admit to most others I know. He made me smile, he made me cry, he made my birthday really really special, he found something to redeem my faith in myself every single time that I messed up, and I know how often that was the case.
If there was one person to name who had restored my faith on male species it is SEAN. Gem of person whom you automatically start respecting once you know him as a person, cause he thinks of a gal beyond a sex symbol. He was the one who made me realise there is a thing called platonic relationship between a guy and gal. And that its possible to be friends with a guy without feeling guilty abt it. Talk abt any and everything on earth without being misunderstood, and without giving disclaimers again and again. That’s wat our friendship is all abt. Still I am blessed to learn the value of hard of work and professionalism from him. Been with me thru the thick and thins in the org, as my friend, philosopher and guide. Max trustworthy, one you can bank on blindly and max emotional too. Cancerian to the core.
As I believe good things don’t last long, I am sure this phase of life is also pretty short lived.
Silly Goose, Wish you all the best for all your future endevours in life.
Love always,
Idiot
Thursday, January 25, 2007
Moral Police
I was reading this news, where our government has banned AXN Channel which was showing some adult program in the late night slot. Mind it the programme was not suggestive and nothing related to skimpily clad woman with inviting looks. It apparently only showed the world’s most sexiest ads which still are on a telecast or were shown in the past. Remember Axe effect ads I think they were pretty sexy and well made. Something on those lines just that they have compiled a few of them and made a programme out of it.
I am not for or against the government banning that channel, but I certainly feel before overburdening all of us with an extra overdose of sex and its substitutes. We need to educate the masses with some basis sex education. I don’t know why but in India, sex still is a forbidden topic although we are next in line after China in case of population explosion. Very very ironical. I always believed that its more fun to have the forbidden fruit, and do things which are generally not acceptable by the so called society. However by the time we realise the pros and cons of our eating the same, its too late. We’ve already done the harm and eaten the fruit. How I wish somebody was there to educate us regarding sex ke side effects than just saying its not good for gals before marriage. Nobody told us the logic behind it as to why we shoulnt be doing it and whats the harm in watching a porn or an adult program below 18.
Don’t you think its high time India came of age. Instead of brushing all these topics under the carpet we need to educate the generation and let them take a call. Just myviews.
I am not for or against the government banning that channel, but I certainly feel before overburdening all of us with an extra overdose of sex and its substitutes. We need to educate the masses with some basis sex education. I don’t know why but in India, sex still is a forbidden topic although we are next in line after China in case of population explosion. Very very ironical. I always believed that its more fun to have the forbidden fruit, and do things which are generally not acceptable by the so called society. However by the time we realise the pros and cons of our eating the same, its too late. We’ve already done the harm and eaten the fruit. How I wish somebody was there to educate us regarding sex ke side effects than just saying its not good for gals before marriage. Nobody told us the logic behind it as to why we shoulnt be doing it and whats the harm in watching a porn or an adult program below 18.
Don’t you think its high time India came of age. Instead of brushing all these topics under the carpet we need to educate the generation and let them take a call. Just myviews.
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