Wednesday, October 18, 2006

I hate men

Why do gals have to fake it so much, be it orgasm, their impression/reputation, etc etc. Our society only accepts those gals, who fake it to be naïve and innocent and donno even S of sex till 50 years of marriage as well. I hate this hypocrisy all over the world which allows men to boast it thru and thru and expects wimmen to be those damsel in distress who cant move a cup without these MCPs. Why shud I fake it to anyone, that I am those so called ‘sati savitris’. If they can accept me the way I m well and good otherwise go take a walk. But then with this kinda of an attitude you end up finding none. Cause most men even though they fake it to be thee most broad minded creatures on this earth but still deep down they prefer wimmen who are submissive and docile. Don’t give them any kinda of competition, don’t make them insecure are earning less them, don’t have any kinda of a track record you know affairs/boy friends and all, sheesh the list is endless. You are suppose to find happiness in their happiness that’s an apt wife material.
Just because I have the capacity to give them straight on their face for their gross/perverted sense of humour that doesn’t mean I am open abt anyone into mah bed. How sick to even think on those lines, forget abt believing it to be true and all that. Why cant I abuse, smoke, booze, joke like men especially when we talk of equality. Somehow I have begin to believe that even wimmen the so called BTMs (in confusion) have an equal role to play in sustaining this kinda of mentality. Wats the correlation btw a gal smoking and her being fast and available. I think even whores shud have a choice whom to go bed with and whom not. All these things make me think, its better if I don’t talk to anyone barring a few who understand. Don’t care a fuck if ppl think I m a snob and all that atleast its better than ppl thinking that I m loose and available.

Wednesday, October 11, 2006

Do women say yes to sex for love?

Did that catch your attention? Good. It’s time for a little debate regarding relationship priorities for men and women. If it’s true that women give sex in order to get love (romance and intimacy), and men give love (romance and intimacy) in order to get sex, then men and women might view adultery differently. For example, if a woman considers the emotional intimacy of love to be the most important aspect of a relationship, she might be quicker to forgive her husband for having casual sex with multiple partners than she would be to forgive a long-term emotional attachment to another woman. A man might not understand that his wife may feel exceptionally threatened by his “just friends” relationship with another woman, particularly if he excludes her from the friendship. For many women, emotional affairs can perhaps be the most devastating because the intimacy they crave for is being given to someone else. If a man considers sex to be the ultimate expression of love, he might forgive his wife for having an emotional — but not sexual — relationship with another man not realising that the emotional affair is a bigger danger to the security of his marriage. He might not be able to forgive sexual activity, casual or otherwise, even if she continues to satisfy his sexual needs during her affair. Any type of intimacy — sexual or emotional — given to someone outside of the marriage takes away from the marital partner. Understanding how each views sex and love can be a big step toward keeping intimacy (and love) at home where it belongs.