The say marriage is that alluring fruit ‘jisse jo khaye woh pachtaye and jo na khaye woh bhi pachtaye’. Then why is that when somone is unmarried, he/she is desperate to get married, and when you get married you would do anything to come out of it.
I was reading a friends post today. He/she said that its very difficult adjusting in xyz country cause, he/she couldn’t find her favourite hair cream. And I was thinking see all those small little things do make a bigggggggg difference although nobody counts it. But the one who misses it, is the only one who can say the worth of it . The same goes for marriage especially for a gal. It is not easy adjusting into an alien home, alien atmosphere, alien washroom and you gotto be still smiling cause all these are small issues. She is the only one who can tell you, how much all those things are missed post address change. Its like a big shock/surprise the very next day and you cant even crib. Life goes for a toss in the absence of all these essential and its frustrating at the end of the day. I heard a celebrity saying once that a successful marriage is one where you don’t need to change your lifestyle even one percent. And I couldn’t have agreed more.
I am thinking I shall prompt this question very soon to someone. And ask him to quantify in percentage how much is my life gonna change after.
On second thoughts you cannot do without marriage as well. Especially for gals again. We have a bio clock ticking always which goes backwards post 30s. So while our options post 30 diminishes, men still have the options of all those young pyts available, till pretty late. Not that men do not age. But we age sooner and our aging process is gradual, whereas men age pretty late in life although their aging is pretty drastic, whenever they do so. I have seen a lot of men aging 10 years suddenly after a point, who till some years looked as if middle age has never touched them. So while gals are suppose to make hay while the sun shines, ie get married in their ripe age. Even men are suppose to plan for their retirement but they can evade this till a very long time. And the options never decreases, unless until age hits them. Infact it only increases with the passing no of years, for them, where as its vice-versa for us.
Any which way the drift is you cannot do with or without marriage. The smarter option would be to take a very wise thought after decision and avoid it till you can irrespective whatever sex you belong.
I was reading a friends post today. He/she said that its very difficult adjusting in xyz country cause, he/she couldn’t find her favourite hair cream. And I was thinking see all those small little things do make a bigggggggg difference although nobody counts it. But the one who misses it, is the only one who can say the worth of it . The same goes for marriage especially for a gal. It is not easy adjusting into an alien home, alien atmosphere, alien washroom and you gotto be still smiling cause all these are small issues. She is the only one who can tell you, how much all those things are missed post address change. Its like a big shock/surprise the very next day and you cant even crib. Life goes for a toss in the absence of all these essential and its frustrating at the end of the day. I heard a celebrity saying once that a successful marriage is one where you don’t need to change your lifestyle even one percent. And I couldn’t have agreed more.
I am thinking I shall prompt this question very soon to someone. And ask him to quantify in percentage how much is my life gonna change after.
On second thoughts you cannot do without marriage as well. Especially for gals again. We have a bio clock ticking always which goes backwards post 30s. So while our options post 30 diminishes, men still have the options of all those young pyts available, till pretty late. Not that men do not age. But we age sooner and our aging process is gradual, whereas men age pretty late in life although their aging is pretty drastic, whenever they do so. I have seen a lot of men aging 10 years suddenly after a point, who till some years looked as if middle age has never touched them. So while gals are suppose to make hay while the sun shines, ie get married in their ripe age. Even men are suppose to plan for their retirement but they can evade this till a very long time. And the options never decreases, unless until age hits them. Infact it only increases with the passing no of years, for them, where as its vice-versa for us.
Any which way the drift is you cannot do with or without marriage. The smarter option would be to take a very wise thought after decision and avoid it till you can irrespective whatever sex you belong.
3 comments:
you call someone a friend and he/she does not even know your real name :P
I am not sure how life changes after 30, from my perspective it does not; however people who see me as a 30 year old might now have a different perception !!!
Marriage is indeed something that can make you think a lot before and after it !!! just does not stop i guess !
OM: and how do u nobody else uses a hair cream...
for gals it does... post 30s... the options become fewer.. any big decision calls for a lot of thinking... its just that marriage is one of the biggest decisions of one's life...
I for some reason assumed it was me... apologies !
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