You never realise your own potential till you actually are cornered in a situation. And I didn’t realise it either that I had such a short fuse, or I could argue single handedly, with 99.99% of the ppl opposing me in a group. Today at our usual smoke break after lunch, we were just casually discussing about a gal in hr. when the topic of her full name came into discussion later on leading to oh she is from there and hence she belongs to this cast and this creed. I cant believe while we are on the threshold of 21st century where everybody takes pride in being so called ‘broadminded’ we still at the back of our mind believe in castes and all this nonsense. Cause its okay so long you just wanna have sex with a gal, but when it comes to marriage a upper class pandit wants to marry a pandit, a backward class will not get options other than his own class, unless it’s a love marriage and so on and so forth.
Why is it then caste no bar when it comes to having sex and fun. One should only go for gals from the upper class and not socialise with the normal backward class. And believe me this is not just a small town practice. It’s a bigger practice in metros and even with ppl living abroad. i have seen ppl from lower class when married into upper caste as they ‘fasaoed’ the guy, are always made to remember that she belonged from a lower strata of society. I can come up with ten thousand of such examples where I have seen the so called broader race following this age old belief.
And however, big feminist I may sound, this all the more shortens my list of approved guys and gals. Now the filters are more stringent.
Why is it then caste no bar when it comes to having sex and fun. One should only go for gals from the upper class and not socialise with the normal backward class. And believe me this is not just a small town practice. It’s a bigger practice in metros and even with ppl living abroad. i have seen ppl from lower class when married into upper caste as they ‘fasaoed’ the guy, are always made to remember that she belonged from a lower strata of society. I can come up with ten thousand of such examples where I have seen the so called broader race following this age old belief.
And however, big feminist I may sound, this all the more shortens my list of approved guys and gals. Now the filters are more stringent.
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