One of my earlier post, published once upon a time. Republished with no changes in the situation or connotation.
So convinient to be a guy
Guess wat a friend of mine told me today in my context “mere ko lag raha tha that I will make it convenient for myself, sharing everything with you the way I want and still not commit…..waisa nahi hota.” Its so convenient to be a guys no. You can choose to be however close you want to be with the gal and yet stay aloof whenever you wish to. Why do we gals come with so much of emotional baggage and restrictions and why is it so difficult for us to learn the tricks of the trade. I have had friends who have been able to ghumao guys however they wish to……wish could learn those traits. But I guess I m happy with whatever traits I have got so wat if its not been able to bear me any fruits so far but I m sure it will some day and that too for a long run. But believe me being a gal is tuff at times its like walking on a tight rope with so many temptations around.
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Well, i would say a nice post...But i would really to say here do not get into this mode of thinking...all it wud do is..attract the negative thoughts and thus become real..We human beings are like magnet and attract what we think...Thought about it ? When we dont wanna be late for an important meeting, we keep focusing on it and eventually what happens is we are actually late..
Free urself wid any past resentments and disappointments that u hold for urself..Love and appreciate everything, specially urself..Never critize or blame urself or anyone else for anything...Make your happiness the number one thing in your life.
Know and accept that you are perfect as you are right now.
Never get demotivated...Live a life and be happy!!
Cheers,
Avantika
Avantika: Wow I know your retirement profession now...thanks for all the (unsolicited) advise.... btw if you havent noticed this was an old post... and as I said we all are evolving.. hope u get the hint...thanks anyway
hehe ;-) yeah i did notice that its an old post...though i just commented on the write-up..definitely we all are evolving..I got d hint...take care..
PS. Trust me the way it works..The magnet effect is so intense that it suprises...Anyway..Give it a thought if u really wanna...
And unsolicited advice..nevermind...It would take hell lot of understanding as to what exactly this was all about..Anyway,u take care..Keep smiling :-)
Cheers,
Avantika
Avanti: and then somebody says he/she is modest huh... with all that raving and ranting..... please go and see a shrink soon... my unsolicited advise (..nevermind...It would take hell lot of understanding as to what exactly this was all about..Anyway,u take care..Keep smiling
take care
love always
FS
Hmm..guess..i really need to that sometime soon...I donno why I have developed this raving and ranting in my tone...Honestly this has been off-late...I love reading..and like what u write...I am sorry Babe :-( did mean any offence to u...
U take care too..
Love always
Avanti
Oops..Typo error..
*did not mean any offence to u...
Avantika...
Avanti: your actions speak louder than words... *typo error...
Avanti / Avantika / If that really IS your name / Wotever – How about writing your own blog and letting FS and me post 'cheery' lil, sunshine-y comments and making your day totally? Instead of hiding behind the veil of anonymity and carrying on the play-act of Miss Goodie Two-Shoes herself?
Come out of your closet. Bring it on, ‘Babe.’
Show us what you got!
You’ve shown us your ‘modesty,’ and ability to ‘respect others.’ How about letting us a real peep into the ‘real’ you?
You are ‘generous’ too, didn’t you mention in one of your posts?
'Yes, Avantika...did not hear anything from you...'
Oh, and since Avantika is clearly a pseudonym, let me re-christen you.
How about me naming you Ms. Ever Grumpy? EG in short?
Does that sort of ring a bell?
It sure does to me.
Wonder how I know?
Keep guessing!
Hi Vandana,read the last 2 comments...
Well, I really donot have go ga ga about the
fact that I am Avantika...I really dont believe in anonymity and would never use pseudonym as I love what I am...
Thought about starting my own blog...thinking
of a good name...will surely comeup with
something like that soon and keep u and FS
posted....And u wud be more than welcome to peep into my blog...
And please do not even try to re-christan me as I am
quite happy with name given to me by my parents which is Avantika Seth...in short AS which means Ms.Always Smiling contradictory to what u are trying to term me as Ever Grumpy..unlike of what u mentioned in one
of your post that who are u to "Re-define" me...Righto ???
Well, u keeping ringing your bells...wherein I take Adieu from this insane conversation and I may not reply and continue this trail commenting,Vandana. Ta!
Cheers,
Keep Smiling,
Avantika..
Avantika,
Too much time on your time? You bet! Your comment must have taken you a hell lot of time to pen, innit? Kudos!
How about investing in a spell-check, and more importantly a book about correct English usage? Believe me, you would stand to greatly benefit by it. Do look up ‘ga-ga’ to understand why I had fits of laffter.
And while you are at it, search for ‘re-define’ too, to see what I actually meant.
And as for the excessive fondness for ellipses, I really couldn’t comprehend if they den(o)t(e) philosophy, a leaning towards perhaps the Morse code, or simply a ‘More dots, more pleasure’ syndrome?
And now, Ms ASS, much as I am loving each minute of prolonging this *intellectually stimulating* this entire convo, I have things to do – so I really gotta rush – to spend time with someone very dear to me and his best friend. After all, the Fashion Week is only here annually.
You at home on a lovely Saturday evening? Tut Tut!
Adios!
Oops, Typo error
Ms AS*
Sincere apologies.
Vandana
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