Can you trust someone who belongs to the casanovian genre ever since you’ve known him. Would you believe even one word of all the sentences uttered, when you know all he’s done his life is mastered the art of pursuing. But its easier said than done. Especially when you kinda reciprocate the behaviour. Flirting as reiterated is just casual flattery without any serious motives/vested interests, and its especially not meant to encourage a promiscuous relationship. Though its easier to fall for someone when he/she is good to you.
But then where do u draw the line. How do u differentiate if at all its serious or just another casual comment. You know at times that person would want to say something out of intention but its taken as a casual remark just cause her/his impression is such. Or out of self defence mechanism and vice versa. In any case it’s a very difficult and dicey situation.
I used to always wonder why do they fall and feel non-sympathetic towards wimmen going after men known for a evil reputation. Its like heading towards danger on intention. Infact most men and wimmen get into this trait after their relationship(s) has been unsuccessful. And I can say this out of experience. Cause I myself don’t trust most of them now. And say things which are not meant most of the times. But as they say for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Now its hard to trust someone who is so much like you. Its like facing the mirror and trying to convince yourself that don’t be so harsh, give yourself another chance. May be its serious this time.
But then where do u draw the line. How do u differentiate if at all its serious or just another casual comment. You know at times that person would want to say something out of intention but its taken as a casual remark just cause her/his impression is such. Or out of self defence mechanism and vice versa. In any case it’s a very difficult and dicey situation.
I used to always wonder why do they fall and feel non-sympathetic towards wimmen going after men known for a evil reputation. Its like heading towards danger on intention. Infact most men and wimmen get into this trait after their relationship(s) has been unsuccessful. And I can say this out of experience. Cause I myself don’t trust most of them now. And say things which are not meant most of the times. But as they say for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Now its hard to trust someone who is so much like you. Its like facing the mirror and trying to convince yourself that don’t be so harsh, give yourself another chance. May be its serious this time.
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That knowledge that that person is unlike others you have met (read needy, un-self-assured, desperate, boring, meek, predictable, suffering from low self-esteem), and above all, falls in the same-wavelength-with-you bracket makes you potently attracted to him.
I don't blame you.
As far as the big trust factor is concerned, looking out cautiously, I repeat cautiously (not to be confused with skeptically), is the name of the game...
now thats SUCH an easy thing to do...
Yeah. As easy as giving birth to baby :-(
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