I was watching a news on tv. Where two gals had killed their parents. This story came about 2-3 days back. And everyday there is a new twist to the story. First day they showed that a gal from meerut with her friend had killed her parents. She said she had killed them cause they used to beat her and her friend, and would differentiate btw her and her brother. This was quite indigestible, considering you wont kill your parents just cause they beat you black and blue, or they were partial towards your brother. That is like so common. I don’t have a brother, but I know parents have different set of rules for guys and gal.
The next day there was a different revelation. The gal confessed that she was raped by her step father and brother for years that’s why she killed them. Infact she had ritten a letter to the wimmen’s cell in august describing her agony. But no action was taken on the same. And when she cudnt take anymore she killed them one day in a fit. Even after the tv was switched off, I cudnt help thinking that incest is so common in our country yet its such a taboo to speak about it. I am sure 7 out of 10 gals have been thru it in some form or the other, but they don’t speak about it for various reasons. And its completely understandable for a gal to do something so heinous as a retort to it. Imagine going through something like that, when you don’t even know the meaning of periods. Imagine experiencing the worst form of secs when your body is not even conditioned for it.
And then you cannot even speak about it, cause everybody would blame you, cause you would be looked down upon as an impure object not worth acceptance, cause the society will consider you as an available commodity after such a secret is revealed and all such nonsense reasons. We all glorify secs so much, without even thinking that one rape can make you averse to the idea of it forever. And proper counselling and guidance can probably make you a better and confident person. Yet there are so many parents, so many gals who keep these things under cover, and keep nourishing it till it becomes a big inferiority complex.
I wish I never have a gal child ever, cause the things they have go thru is not worth the price they pay for being a gal or getting matured. Even if I do, this is one thing, I’d be most sympathetic about god forbid in case. Cause they are not to be blamed, it’s the society which sucks. And if counselled well, from my experience she can come out to be a better person, not committing mistakes normal gals commit like falling for the wrong guys and all that. As they would have known that secs is never a word in isolation, it always has its repercussions good or bad depending upon circumstances.
The next day there was a different revelation. The gal confessed that she was raped by her step father and brother for years that’s why she killed them. Infact she had ritten a letter to the wimmen’s cell in august describing her agony. But no action was taken on the same. And when she cudnt take anymore she killed them one day in a fit. Even after the tv was switched off, I cudnt help thinking that incest is so common in our country yet its such a taboo to speak about it. I am sure 7 out of 10 gals have been thru it in some form or the other, but they don’t speak about it for various reasons. And its completely understandable for a gal to do something so heinous as a retort to it. Imagine going through something like that, when you don’t even know the meaning of periods. Imagine experiencing the worst form of secs when your body is not even conditioned for it.
And then you cannot even speak about it, cause everybody would blame you, cause you would be looked down upon as an impure object not worth acceptance, cause the society will consider you as an available commodity after such a secret is revealed and all such nonsense reasons. We all glorify secs so much, without even thinking that one rape can make you averse to the idea of it forever. And proper counselling and guidance can probably make you a better and confident person. Yet there are so many parents, so many gals who keep these things under cover, and keep nourishing it till it becomes a big inferiority complex.
I wish I never have a gal child ever, cause the things they have go thru is not worth the price they pay for being a gal or getting matured. Even if I do, this is one thing, I’d be most sympathetic about god forbid in case. Cause they are not to be blamed, it’s the society which sucks. And if counselled well, from my experience she can come out to be a better person, not committing mistakes normal gals commit like falling for the wrong guys and all that. As they would have known that secs is never a word in isolation, it always has its repercussions good or bad depending upon circumstances.
2 comments:
In a country where sex is taboo, it is also one of the most rampant. And not all of it is reciprocal, with one person forcing it upon another in the name of getting-his-pound-of-flesh, it's-going-to-be-so-good-for-you(in the case of first-time minors), or marriage.
Sad. But a grim reality.
touche'
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